It is a common fact whether we like it or not that there is something very much exciting about watching a hot steamy and sexual scene on a TV and most of the time watching these scenes we learn a lot of new things which we end up trying with our partners.
Well, it is all fun till the time comes when all the imagination must be put into action and this is where things take a turn for the worst. Most people don’t realize that the scenes which are shown in the movies are cut and edited to the extent that they no longer are one single sequence. Scenes are re-shot again and again just to reach perfection so that they can mesmerize the viewer’s eyes and mind. Thus to bring you back to the world of reality and show you what actually goes down while having sex in real life, the following are the differences between real sex and the depiction of sex in movies and tv shows.
1) It’s not at all clean as shown in the movies –
Ever seen a hot scene in the movie when two people are having sex, the place looks clean and not much messy and after they are done, most of the time after sex they just lie there on the bed doing nothing. Well sorry to shatter this misconception but sex in real life gets very messy and no one would want to lay around after that as a shower after sex, is like water after having food, it’s basically a necessity.
2) Maintaining eye contact –
While the sex scene is going on the screen, it is usually depicted that the guy and the girl are constantly looking into each other’s eye, but in real life, this is not the case. Sex makes things extremely weird and until and unless you are too much in-depth in a relationship with the person, there are chances that you are not going to be constantly looking at them during the whole process.
3) Moaning isn’t going to happen always –
It is one thing that movies and tv shows have made us believe that the girl is bound to moan at the top of her voice, don’t be surprised if this doesn’t happen in real life cause it usually doesn’t. It is not compulsory for women to constantly moan during the whole time as it depends on women to women and how much they can withstand.
4) Not everyone is smooth below the belt –
This is one common thing that no matter which movie or video you are watching you are bound to find it in common. Movies want people to watch more of what they are showing; thus they make sure everything is clean and hygienic for both the men and women, but in real life, this is not the case. While it is recommended by many people to keep it clean but not all follow this rule, so don’t get alarmed if you go to have sex and find out it’s not how you pictured it to look.
5) Sex in real life is emotional and not how they show it on screen –
Watching a sex scene in movies usually shows that the man and women don’t typically have to feel for each other and even if they do they usually end up just having sex the entire time which is not the case in real life. In real life the foreplay is bound to come in between all the sex, so make sure you don’t lean interest as this will only help make the situation much better.
6) If you are a first-timer, it’s bound to get awkward –
Confidence might be the key for everything in life, but when it comes to sex, it is bound to get awkward especially if you are going to have sex for the first time in life. This is perfectly fine as nobody in the world is born with all the sexual information in their head and the phrase “Practise only makes a man perfect and women in this case” perfectly applies to this situation.